When in your pursuit to get your ex back, their are some tips and strategies one must use in order to make your plan work effectively. First of all, you cannot flood your ex with phone calls as this will only make them mad at you and your hopes of getting them back will quickly go down the drain. Another area that you cannot touch is text messaging. Whats the worst thing your ex can do but get a whole lot of text messages with you whining for them to come back. Also make sure that with your mission on how to get your ex back you are not going out and getting plastered and then calling them at 3am in the morning. This only shows weakness and will strongly ruin your chances of getting your ex back. You have to be strong and go out and have some fun to get your mind off of things. All your trying for is a future date where you will be able to get a shot at a second chance.